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Pamela A. Mann

Wedding Officiant / Marriage Commissioner

Interspiritual Minister

[email protected]

 Fredericksburg, VA 22401


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Heart Star Ceremonies is a full-service healing arts ministry that assists couples in creating a customized wedding ceremony that is: heartfelt, intimate, love, light and joy-filled. As wedding celebrations are a time for a couple to focus on their sacred union, they are often a time to celebrate the creation and expansion of families, we are happy to work with individuals and couples to incorporate their families as we plan the wedding ceremony.

We are available weekdays and weekends year-round to officiate your wedding ceremony. We are comfortable with wedding ceremonies of various sizes and formats whether it is a small, intimate, gathering for an elopement (civil ceremony) or micro-ceremony at a private residence to a larger celebration located at the destination and venue of your choice, or somewhere in between.

We work with ceremony formats that are traditional or contemporary located indoors or outdoors.

All wedding ceremonies are created and customized to meet and support you on your current spiritual path. Ceremonies are created to honor and reflect your personalities and faith tradition(s) whether they are Humanistic, Secular, Spiritual, Agnostic or Non-denominational.

Our Services

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Types of Wedding Ceremonies:

  • Traditional, Contemporary, Themed
  • Elopement and Express Ceremonies
  • Certificate Signing (for those whose family member or friend doesn’t meet VA Licensing requirements)
  • Co-Officiate
  • Destination Wedding
  • Vow Renewal

Popular Customization Elements Include 

  • Unity Rituals such as: Unity Candle, Heart, Sand, Tree Planting, Painting or Wine
  • Tying the Knot with Rope
  • Wine Box and Love Letter Ceremony (Romantic Time Capsule)
  • Ring Warming, Hand Blessing
  • Celtic Knot, Hand-fasting, Oathing Stone, Quaich
  • Jumping the broom
  •  13 Coin 
  • 7 vows/steps
  • Stomping of the Glass
  • OR I will help you create your own!

Be sure to reserve early, the most popular dates and months fill up quickly!

Now scheduling for 2022, 2023 and 2024!

Our clients deserve to have extra personal touches with their ceremony, regardless of type or size.  

Ceremony sites and ritual items are blessed prior to the ceremony upon request. Couples may also choose to have a blessing of their wedding rings as a part of the ring exchange.

If you are having a themed wedding ceremony and celebration, Pamela is more than happy to be a part of your theme, which makes for an authentic and fun ceremony during festive times of the year.

Pamela is pet-friendly, trends are showing that couples are choosing to hold ceremonies at venues that are pet-friendly. Pamela encourages and includes "fur-babies" to be a part of the wedding ceremony whenever possible and appropriate. 

Prayer Support is offered (if desired) all the way through the planning process as well as on the day of the wedding ceremony. Pamela often prays with couples and their family members prior to the ceremony to offer emotional and grounding support as needed and requested. She also provides clients with handy checklists and guides throughout the planning process.

Other Services Offered

Life's sacred moments along the journey continue after well after wedding celebrations have passed. R Pamela offers support to couples and their families with additional heartfelt and meaningful ceremonies and services such as:

Baby Naming/Blessing/Welcoming  

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Anniversary and Vow Renewal Celebrations

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End of Life Care

Celebration of Life and Memorial Services (Funeral)

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Guided Visualizations for Relaxation and Meditation​

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Intuitive, Meditative, Shamanic Painting Courses and Coaching

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Reiki Healing Sessions (Distant and Virtual)

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Contact Pamela at 571-338-8551 or by email [email protected], for availability of date, time, and pricing options for the ceremony that is perfect for you. 

Serving couples in Virginia, Washington, DC.

 All couples are welcomed, I fully support and encourage love equality, and do not discriminate on the basis of race, nationality, or sexual orientation. 

PreMarital Counseling Services

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Prepare and Enrich is an online assessment tool that couples individually fill out, results are emailed to me, the results are used for our coaching sessions to celebrate and discuss areas of growth.

(Pre-Marriage Coaching not required for me to officiate)